So… I'm in a wedding planning frenzy right now, and let's face it - I love it (I've only been thinking about this day for the last 26 years). I've finally asked all of my bridesmaids if they'll be in our wedding, so I can now get started with planning their things (yay!). Luckily, they all said they'd love to be in it… for some reason, I was worried they'd say no! I mean, you have to wonder if people really want to be in weddings and you can't just assume… I know I've loved being in the weddings that I have, but not everyone necessarily feels the same way you do about weddings. Anyway - I now get to proceed with playing dress up with them, so I'm happy. :)
In other news, we've decided on an October wedding and everything is pretty much set with the date and venue, so that is a HUGE relief! Since we decided on the date this weekend, Craig's wheels started to turn a little bit… like with ideas and stuff. We were riding in the car after we had agreed on the date and venue and let me just fill you in on a little snippet of the conversation that went terribly wrong:
Craig: So the wedding is in October…
H: Uh, yeah.
Craig: Well Halloween is in October.
H: G'job. *this is dripping with sarcasm in case you didn't catch it*
Craig: I know what we can do! Let's have a Halloween themed wedding! Everyone can dress up and..
H: Just stop. No.
Craig: But it would be fun with the cos…
H: ……….. You're serious……… And you're now off the wedding committee.
Don't get me wrong… I will still ask him what he thinks about different decisions, but any answer he gives me will automatically trigger the memory of his plan of a halloween costume party as we exchange wedding vows. Unless everyone came to the wedding dressed as Disney princes and princesses… well even then… all I can do is shake my head.
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